Keeping it real in a Relationship

Keeping it real in a relationship 

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            Alright, so now we are gonna be deliberating on the topic “Keeping it real in a relationship”. Mehn, it’s damn complicated… Imagine being real in a relationship, you will need to be yourself, do everything you do in your normal life and in fact you just got to live your normal life irrespective of whom or what your partner is.

Now, keeping it real in your relationship has a long way to go in making your relationship fantastic. Fantastic? Yes fantastic. I know its really hard to do so, but it helps a lot.

Okay so how do I keep it real in my relationship?

You need to be yourself

           

In being yourself, I mean living your normal life. Don’t pretend about anything, let your partner know who you truly are. So many persons pretend a lot in relationships in other to make their partners either love them more or feel that they are the perfect couple for each other, hmmm; you will end up harming and scattering your hard built relationship with your own hands. The best thing to do in a relationship is to make your partner know exactly whom you are, If he or she can’t accept you the way you are, then you guys don’t fit to be called partners or couples, someone you call a partner or a couple should be able to accept you and live with you the way you are, he/she doesn’t need to complain if he truly loves you as he/she claims.

           

So being yourself in that relationship will make it last longer, let your partner know your likes and dislikes, let him/her know what your mindset towards him/her is, let him/her be the one person whom understands you totally, emotionally and other wise! 

You partner should be able to understand your weaknesses and help you resolve them; he/she should be the one person to make you smile and cry at the same time… Yes that’s how to keep it real in a relationship!

Even if you can’t cook, open up to him, he will help you if he truly loves you and if you open up to him with all sincerity!

Even if you are financially down, she will help you if she truly loves you and if you open up to her with all sincerity!

Here are some other tips to guide you in keeping your relationship real

Love your partner with all your heart, with all you have, all you had and all you will ever get!

Sacrifice your time for your relationship!

Be yourself, don’t pretend about anything. Eat the way you eat normally, bath the way you bath, sleep the way you sleep, snore the way you snore, talk the way you talk, do everything the way you do them in your outside world!

Keeping your relationship real comes with so many benefits… Some of them are listed below

Your partner gets to understand you better and love you more

It makes your relationship fantastic in the sense that you would have an enviable relationship

It makes your relationship less troublesome and quarrelsome

You get to understand and feel the true value of a real relationship!

Now that’s how to keep a relationship Real!

Hmmm! Relationship is a goal, which you have to work for. Achieving a peaceful and enjoyable relationship is bae.

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